It matters little what happens to us, it is how we deal with it and what meaning we attach to it that matters most.
There
is currently a commercial on TV for an insurance company where a house
owner says that if something happens to his house he would have wasted
the past 14 years of his life!!!!
Is that all it is about, getting a house and paying it off? Whatever
we identify with becomes our reality so if the house is the main thing,
the emotion is tense when it is threatened. It does not help much at
all if the media, on a daily basis, are telling us how hard it is and
cementing this reality.
My brother in Denmark who has a young family, is not expecting to ever
own his own home, does he have a good life? -He thinks he has a great
life, owning a house is just not his focus.
We have defined Australia as the lucky country, and along with this
follows an expectation that if we work hard and "do the right thing" we
would increase our wealth and have a good retirement. Now it seems
that this ‘promise’ is being denied many Australians.
The first step is to clarify what can be done, where can we save money,
what can we change in our life to minimise the impact, is there another
way to generate some income, etc?
Once we have done what we can, then whether we feel positive or
negative depends on our attitude. Are we going to choose to see the
financial ‘crisis’ as the dominant aspect of our lives or are we going
to value, notice and appreciate other aspects of our lives? Aspects
such as nature, (we are blessed in the Hunter with natural beauty)
people close to us, people whom we care about and who care about us,
music, reading (libraries are free), walking and other exercise and so
on.
There are plenty of delightful things we can engage in to live a fulfilled life.
Perhaps we can seek comfort in Einstein’s observation:
The ideals which have lighted me on my way and time after time given me
new courage to face life cheerfully, have been Truth, Goodness, and
Beauty. . . . The ordinary objects of human endeavour -- property,
outward success, luxury -- have always seemed to me contemptible.
Until next time
Warm regards
Charlotte
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